i-want-spankings:

When someone is trying their best to become a better person, don’t sit there and remind them of who they used to be.
Stand up and encourage them to be their best.
Each of us as free spirits are entitled to adjust our thinking and correct our steps and create better versions of ourselves. That in itself can be a daunting task to undertake.
If you care about that person, look for the good and remind them of who they want to be.